BAGS (don’t) FLY FREE
Recently a friend was talking to me about an article that they had read. The article was about the people who had the job of coming to the site of a plane crash and doing an analysis of what had taken place. The analysts wanted to find out what had taken place, why it has taken place, and what can be learned from the crash. The article talked about several different scenarios…
First, there was the “worst case scenario” where no one survived the impact because of the speed of the plane, the degree impact and the amount of damage that the plane incurred. Secondly, the article talked about those particular cases where the passengers had the opportunity to get out. Surprisingly, even though there was the opportunity to make it out of the plane, many times the passengers did not make it to safety…but why?
The passengers all got adequate instructions from flight attendant when they first got settled on the plane…though most don’t listen to those instructions. The article stated that when a plane is in an emergency situation, the flight attendants will come back and they will give a second set of instructions…unlike the first set, the second set of instructions is usually given full attention from the passengers. The instructions are clear and the passengers are told how to position themselves to be able to have the greatest possibility of surviving the crash, where the appropriate exit is located and how to use the oxygen masks that drop. Then, they also give this bit of instruction that is critically important that you know: you cannot take anything with you. Do not grab your purse, laptop, carry-on or anything else. Simply make it to the exit and get out of the plane.
The article went on and it told stories of when the analyst team would come and investigate a plane crash where people could have survived. The most horrific discovery for the team was to see that the exit is blocked by the luggage of people who could not leave without taking something with them. The passengers would finally get to the door only to realize that they cannot get the luggage out of the door. The passengers begin to drop it, and pretty soon enough luggage has been dropped that the people behind them stumble and begin to fall. They could not make it through to the exit, and as a result, end up dying…all because they could not leave their luggage behind them.
I think that this has huge spiritual implications for us. These questions come to mind:
-Am I carrying “baggage” that will ultimately cause me harm?
-Am I carrying “baggage” that will limit me from becoming all that God has designed for me to be?
-Is my past, really my past?
In our lives we can hold onto excess baggage like bitterness or unforgiveness. We desire forgiveness when it benefits us, but we often struggle with giving forgiveness. When we carry those “bags” it can cause us to be unhealthy in many ways…physically, emotionally, relationally and even spiritually.
Why do we struggle with forgiveness? There is a good chance that we have a misunderstanding of forgiveness. Forgiveness is NOT:
-Letting them off the hook for what they did.
-Condoning their actions that hurt you.
Forgiveness is simply releasing the other person; totally releasing them. You release them from having to say, “I’m sorry” and release them from any possibility of revenge. Release the other person so that you don’t have anything that limits you from moving forward with God’s purposes for your life. Forgiveness is not only for the other person, it benefits the giver of forgiveness even more.
Two Scriptures:
Matthew 6:14-15 “If you forgive those who sin against you, your Heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive our sins.”
Ephesians 4:32 “Be kind and loving to each other and forgive others just as God forgave you in Christ.”
Take this with you today: There is tremendous freedom in forgiveness.
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